Love like a machine

I would like to start-off with a question, what do we love about machines? Could it be their efficiency, friendly user interface, safety regulation, or that it can be personalized to suit of particular needs, note, all this are within limits of manufacturers specifications.
These qualities and more appeals to our sense of judgment whenever we decide to purchase a machine, be it a phone, laptop, or a car. How can we relate this to a person? A machine can be described as a part of human mind existing independently, after-all we make machine, and they function within the scope of the manufacturers' programing.
Love could be intrinsic, or programed into an individual, "now let me love you, and I will love you until you learn to love yourself" the wise words from Neyo, who also understands that love can be taught. It is expressed and reciprocated based on individual preferences. So, the question here is how do we get another supermachine to function with our love framework, the answer is programming. The quagmire here is how to program a person, simple, just like a computer appropriate tools are required.
We will run through a few tools that are essential when programming the human mind;
as prerequisite to the programming the programee should agree to the terms and conditions of the process, that been said, let us begin.

Language - computers have languages that they respond to in different ways - HTML, ASP, JAVA some i cant remember right now.
so do humans, take out time to discover the sort of language that works best for your lover, note when i say language i don't mean dialect, i mean a type of expression. Some people don't like being yelled at, some don't like imperative sentences, everyone has his or her peculiarities, so be mindful.

Environment - when we install security cameras/devices we don't do it in the office and then move it to the location to be secured, No, instead the installation is done at the needed site. Same can be applied to humans, do not discuss bedroom issues over lunch or breakfast, nor office issues over a great game of soccer. The appropriate environment facilitates easy assimilation.

Time - often, we notice softwares/programs consuming a considerable amount to time to get installed on our devices, like wise a person, when we want to instill an idea into a lover, we should be aware of the myriad of processes it has to pass through to eventually be accepted, an important one is the firewall, in human case our ego's and super-ego's. A little patience always pays off.

Forgetting - Forgetting is part of the learning process. It is how the brain spams too much information, hereby protecting itself from an overload, so do not give too much at once.
Input - Attempt to get the senses as well as sensory, working and long term memory component of the individual involved, how? Talking might not be good enough, illustrating, gazing, and even a strong scent(a nice delicacy) can help drive the message you are trying to pass home. One of the stimuli would help in memory retrieval. E.g, instead of complaining about how he never opens the door for you, open his first, and then comment on it.

Updates - the mark of a good manufacturer is to constantly search for easier better ways to do the same thing. Upgrades are necessary in every sphere of life and love is no exception, we should persistently try new methods to make both our love-lives as functional and bug free as possible.

And there we have it people, go ye forth and observe all that I have written therein, cheerio.